Why has nobody told me this before?

Skills to get through life by therapist Dr. Julie Smith.


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Motivation Follows Action

Most people wait until they feel motivated — but in reality, action often comes first.

What to know

Motivation is fleeting. It’s not a reliable fuel source for building a meaningful life.
Instead, act your way into motivation.

How to start

  • Lower the bar: Start with 2 minutes
  • Use “starter rituals”: Put on shoes, open the laptop, etc.
  • Use the 5-second rule: Count down and move

Discipline isn't punishment — it's kindness in disguise.


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